7 Steps to Help Yourself Fall Asleep When You’re Not Tired

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This post is very similar to one of the first posts I ever made on this blog: How to Prevent Jet Lag the Natural Way. As a flight attendant, I always have different report times. Sometimes I have to wake up at 4am to work. Other times I don’t have to be at the airport until 10pm if I’m working a red-eye flight. With these 7 steps, I have learned natural ways to help myself fall asleep when I don’t have a normal sleep schedule.

[Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. All of my advice is not intended to replace medical advice. It is always best to talk to a doctor before taking any new vitamins or supplements]

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Step 1: Get Comfy

Put on some comfy pajamas or fuzzy socks! I can’t get comfortable with out some fuzzy socks.

3 Pairs Womens Fuzzy Socks Winter Warm Fluffy Soft Slipper Home Sleeping Cute Animal Socks

These pants are amazing for lounging around the house and can be used as pajamas or you can wear them out! They’re perfect as pajamas because they’re long but very airy so you don’t get too hot at night.

Banjamath®? Women’s Smocked Waist Harem Hippie Boho Yoga Palazzo Casual Pants (S, Elephant Black)

Step 2: Turn Down the Temperature

According to the National Sleep Foundation, between 60 and 67 degrees Fahrenheit (15.5 – 19.5 degrees Celsius) is the suggested temperature for optimal sleep.

Step 3: Use Essential Oils

There have been many studies that prove the effectiveness of aromatherapy, specifically lavender oil, for sleep and other issues. There are also several other essential oils that can help with sleep.

If you’re interested in learning how to grow and care for your own lavender, check out this comprehensive guide.

This is the exact essential oil diffuser I own:

Plant Therapy AromaFuse Aromatherapy Essential Oil Diffuser 380 mL, Wood-Grain – Premium, Quiet, Atomizing Humidifier, 5 Timer Settings, 3 Dimmable LED Night Light Settings, Auto Shut Off

For layovers, I make my own essential oil mist that I spray on my bed to help me fall asleep.

I use these bottles:

2oz Clear Glass Spray Bottles for Essential Oils, Small Spray Bottle with Plastic Sprayer – Set of 3

I usually mix lavender and jasmine essential oils with water and shake it before I spray. I also use a blend called Dreamy Sleep.

Plant Therapy Lavender Essential Oil 100% Pure, Undiluted, Therapeutic Grade 10 mL (1/3 oz)

Aura Cacia Jasmine Absolute Essential Oil (in jojoba oil) | 0.5 fl. oz. | Jasminum officinale

Dreamy Sleep Synergy Essential Oil Blend for Good Night – 100% Pure & Premium Essential Oil Blend By Aviano Botanicals

Step 4: Take Magnesium Supplements

Most people are actually deficient in magnesium. There are so many symptoms of a magnesium deficiency, which can include anxiety, depression, insomnia, and sleep disturbances- all which can obviously lead to an inability to fall asleep. Magnesium binds to receptors in the brain and helps activate neurotransmitters that help calm the body and mind.

When I’m home I drink this magnesium supplement, mixed in warm water:

Natural Vitality Calm, The Anti-Stress Drink Mix, Magnesium Supplement Powder, Raspberry Lemon – 16 ounce

When I’m traveling, I bring magnesium supplements:

Nature Made Magnesium Oxide 250 mg Tablets, 100 Count for Nutrition Support (Packaging May Vary)

Step 5: Drink Chamomile Tea

Chamomile tea helps calm the body and induce sleepiness by relaxing blood vessels. Some people claim chamomile tea works better than prescription medications for anxiety and sleep. This is possibly because a certain compound in chamomile binds to the same receptors in the brain as a class of drugs called benzodiazepines, the types of medication often prescription for anxiety and sleep (Xanax and Valium are benzodiazepines).

Harney & Sons Chamomile Herbal Tea, Classic Tin, 20 Sachets

Step 6: Listen to White Noise

I always sleep listening to white noise. White noise helps drown out sounds that could prevent you from falling asleep. When I’m traveling, I use the app Rain Rain. This app has all different types of white noise sounds to choose from. I personally use the “forest rain” sound every night.

For your home, the Echo Dot with Alexa has really good white noise options. For example, say “Alexa, play Thunderstorm”

Echo Dot (3rd Gen) – Smart speaker with Alexa – Charcoal

You can also buy a sound machine – this one is easy to take with you anywhere:

Marpac Rohm Portable White Noise Machine for Travel | 3 Soothing, Natural Sounds with Volume Control | Compact Sleep Therapy for Adults & Baby | USB Rechargeable | Lanyard for Easy Hanging

Step 7: Take Melatonin

Lastly, when you’re in bed and getting ready to fall asleep – you can take a melatonin supplement. Melatonin is the hormone that guides the sleep-wake cycle in your body. The body starts to naturally produce melatonin when the sun goes down- or when it’s dark. Artificial indoor light can prevent the release of melatonin, that’s why it’s important to sleep in complete darkness and not look at screens, like your phone, before bed. I only take melatonin supplements if I’ve tried everything else and still can’t sleep because it’s better not to take it too frequently. Also, people tend to take a much bigger dose than they need. Supplements are often sold in 3 milligram tablets, which is much higher than the ideal sleep dose of 0.3 – 1 mg. I never take more than 1 mg at one time. I have in the past and it actually caused me to stay awake longer. Taking more than recommended can also cause you to feel groggy and have trouble waking up the next day. The more you take it, the less effective it becomes – so avoid taking this unless you really need it.

Nature’s Bounty Melatonin 1 Milligram, 2 Packs of 180 Tablets

Natrol Melatonin Liquid 1mg 2oz Tincture, 2 Fl. Oz


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